Lesson 784: Enhancing the Sense of Control Over Hair-Plucking Behavior
Duration:70 minutes
Topic Introduction:This course is dedicated to helping you shift from "I can't control it" to "I can adjust it" by gradually building a sense of control and confidence over impulsive behavior through specific self-reinforcement training, situational simulation, daily review, etc.
○ Three stages of sense of control training
- Perception and Awareness:Learn to recognize the moment when the impulse begins, instead of waiting until the end to discover it.
- Micro interrupts:Set small goals such as 3 seconds or 10 seconds, “pause” the action, and practice “I can stop”.
- Successful Recording and Reinforcement:Record and encourage every successful pause to deepen the positive cycle of behavior.
▲ AI Interaction: Record a moment when you successfully controlled your impulse today
The sense of control is not achieved overnight, but is made up of small delays.
Today, please practice "delay for one minute": when the impulse comes, use breathing or alternative actions to last for 60 seconds.
Write about the experience and see if your anxiety decreases faster than you thought.
You will find that you are more powerful than you think.
Conclusion: The sense of control is accumulated slowly in every small choice.
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○ Enhance the sense of control over hair pulling behavior · Music therapy
Put on a song that makes you feel powerful and use it as a "background of control."
When the urge arises, listen to the melody for 30 seconds before deciding whether to act. The pauses in the music are your practice moments.
By writing about this delayed experience, you will find that impulse is not absolute and can be diluted.
Conclusion: Music makes you feel that a sense of control is a small victory accumulated bit by bit.
○ Oriental healing tea
Recommended drinks:Green tea jasmine tea
Recommended reasons:It can clear the mind, calm the spirit and stabilize the will. It is suitable for drinking before and after impulse, helping to restore inner balance.
usage:2g green tea and 2g jasmine flowers, brew with 80℃ water for 5 minutes, sit quietly and drink.
○ Job's tears, red bean and crucian carp soup
Strengthens the spleen and dispels dampness, promotes diuresis and lightens the body, alleviating the heaviness and fatigue caused by a humid environment. High-quality protein aids repair and maintains satiety, making it a light conditioning regimen suitable for those with dampness, edema, and those recovering from it.
Diuretic and light body
Restoring satiety
Healing Recipes
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🎨 Color Mandala · Control Enhancement Chart
Recording your "control" in the form of images, each stroke represents an exercise in overcoming your impulses, is a process of self-empowerment.
- Pause victory chart:Each time you successfully control your impulse, add a circle of color to the mandala.
- Strength accumulation chart:Draw a symbolic totem of the "power of control" within you.
- Self-affirmation chart:Write "I am becoming more powerful" in the center of the graphic and reinforce the belief around the drawing.
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○ Seal Script· Chinese Calligraphy Practice
It is recommended to write the three words "悟", "道" and "无" to train "attention focus" and "slow behavior".
Practice sentences:
“Enlightenment comes from nature, and the mind is free from hindrance.
Realize the Dao through Nature · A Mind without Obstruction”
Write three times a day, combined with "micro-movement pause training" to strengthen the internal control system.
Lesson 784: Dealing with the Shame and Social Disturbances Caused by Trichotillomania
Objective: To repair a self-image overshadowed by feelings of shame.
Steps: Draw a mask, half in shadow and half in light. Write: "I will no longer hide, but gradually emerge." Let drawing be an outlet for your emotions, helping you regain balance between social anxiety and self-identity.
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○ 784. Enhancing the sense of control over hair-pulling behavior: Journaling guidance suggestions
① Set a “delay timer”: Delay the impulse for 30–60 seconds, during which time only breathing or hand substitutions are performed, allowing for discomfort.
② Target classification: Break down “not pulling out at all” into four levels: “delay – reduce the number of times – shorten the duration – change the location”, and choose the one that is achievable.
③ Environmental layout: Place reminder stickers/gloves/hats at high-frequency locations to reduce unconscious triggering.
④ Record a successful micro-control moment and write down the conditions (time/scene/tools) that made it successful.
⑤ If you fail, write a review asking three questions: What did I learn? What can I do in the first five minutes next time? Whose support do I need?
⑥ Conclusion: A sense of control comes from accumulated small victories, not one-time perfection.
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What you control is not the movements, but you regain control of your life.
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